Struggling to find the right trauma therapist? Learn how to identify qualified providers, evaluate fit, and take confident steps toward healing — with help from Headway.
Clinically reviewed by Caitlin Pugh, LCSW
Meeting with a new therapist takes courage — and if that first session doesn’t go well, it can feel devastating. You put yourself out there, only to be disappointed.
Unfortunately, people seeking a therapist for trauma are likely to be familiar with that experience. There is no formal license for trauma therapy, which can make it frustratingly difficult to find a therapist who is truly qualified; it’s not always easy to tell who has been thoroughly trained and who’s just using a buzzword. Beyond that, therapists who are qualified to treat trauma may have long waiting lists or high fees.
Don’t give up, though. Living through trauma can contribute to a range of serious mental health issues, including post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), anxiety, and depression. If you are struggling with the aftermath of trauma, you deserve compassionate and effective care. Headway is here to help you find it.
The first challenge in finding a trauma-informed therapist is landing on a common definition. The American Psychological Association defines “trauma” as an event that “results in significant fear, helplessness, dissociation, confusion, or other disruptive feelings intense enough to have a long-lasting negative effect on a person’s attitudes, behavior, and other aspects of functioning.”
But the word is often misused in popular culture and even the mental health field, with some people using it to describe virtually any negative life event.
This confusion can make finding a trauma therapist feel like a game of trial-and-error. Some therapists describe themselves as “trauma-informed” or “trauma-sensitive” when, in reality, they haven’t been formally trained in approaches proven to effectively address true trauma.
Therapists without proper training may unintentionally retrigger their clients, fail to recognize how past trauma affects current well-being, or fall short in treatment. Such a mismatch can make clients feel misunderstood or underserved by providers who promised to help them.
No one should feel let down by their therapist — and knowing what to look for in a provider can help avoid that outcome.
While some therapists use the label “trauma-informed” to describe their general approach to therapy, there are also lots of specialized techniques used in trauma treatment. To narrow your search, you may want to look for providers who use methods including:
Looking for any new therapist can be daunting, but especially so when you’re trying to find one with specific expertise. Here’s a step-by-step guide to locating a trauma-informed therapist.
Unfortunately, there is no single license or degree that automatically signals a therapist is trauma-trained. And since “trauma” has become a popular term colloquially, it’s also not enough for a therapist to simply say they’re “trauma-informed” or “trauma-sensitive” in their biography.
Look for providers who have demonstrated experience using approaches like cognitive processing therapy, prolonged exposure therapy, eye movement desensitization and reprocessing, or somatic therapies. Trauma-focused organizations including the Trauma Institute & Child Trauma Institute, the Attachment and Trauma Network, and Somatic Experiencing International also run certification programs and publish provider directories, which you can use to find vetted clinicians.
Once you’ve determined that a provider offers treatments that are appropriate for trauma care, you should also make sure you’re able to see them.
Sadly, specialized treatment approaches can be costlier than general talk therapy, and providers who practice these techniques may not accept insurance. If you are not able to pay out-of-pocket, make sure any prospective therapists take your insurance plan before you start meeting with them.
If you have a strong preference about seeing a provider in-person or online, you should also make sure appointments are possible in your preferred setting. (The good news: research suggests many therapeutic approaches, including some used for trauma, are still effective when delivered virtually.)
When searching for a therapist, it’s smart to be as specific as possible. Using online provider directories like Headway’s is a great way to get targeted results.
Headway’s directory, for example, allows you to search for therapists by their specialty, level of training, accepted insurance plans, appointment locations, and more. Given the sensitive nature of trauma therapy, you may also prefer to see a therapist of a particular gender or ethnic background. Headway’s directory allows you to filter your results to reflect those preferences, too.
Once you’ve narrowed your search to a few different options, take a close look at each therapist’s biography. Most therapist bios include a snapshot of their typical therapeutic approaches, the mood they try to strike in sessions, or even the types of clients who tend to like their style. All of that information is important to take into account, as there are lots of factors that determine whether a client-provider relationship will click. In addition to having the right training and specialties, a therapist also needs to be a personality and culture fit for you.
As you search, try to imagine how you would like your therapy sessions to feel. Do you want a therapist who actively or passively leads discussions? One who is funny or serious? Are you looking for unconditional support or tough love? Does a particular treatment approach seem like a fit for your symptoms? Once you have a vision in mind, try to choose a professional whose style and training seems to best match it.
Most therapists offer short, free consultations by phone or video. These introductory sessions allow you to get a better feel for culture and personality match, and give you a chance to ask questions that are important to you. Remember, it’s perfectly OK — and even encouraged — to have consultations with a few different therapists before you commit to one.
When interviewing a potential trauma therapist, consider asking questions like:
If searching for a trauma-informed therapist online feels too overwhelming, you have other options. If you already have a psychiatrist, primary care doctor, or other trusted health care professional, they may be able to offer you a referral to a qualified provider. You can even ask therapists who you’ve worked with in the past (or who you met with for introductory sessions) whether they have trauma-informed colleagues they’d recommend. Most mental health providers are happy to offer suggestions and won’t take this question personally.
Even once you’ve picked a therapist and begun meeting with them, the assessment process isn’t over. Lots of studies show that the strength of the relationship between patient and provider is one of the most important factors in successful therapy, so it’s a good idea to continually evaluate whether your therapist is the right fit for you.
Once you start working together, you may realize that your personalities just don’t mesh, or that the approach your therapist uses doesn’t resonate with your treatment goals. Pay attention to those feelings — but also remember that it takes time to develop a rapport with your therapist and begin seeing results. Unless there’s a major problem, it’s generally a good idea to try at least a few sessions before switching to another provider.
As therapy progresses, take note of how you feel during and after sessions. Therapy — and especially trauma therapy — may feel difficult or uncomfortable at times, as you’re working through painful memories. But it should never feel unsafe or coercive. Your therapist should allow you to share at your own pace, work to make you feel comfortable during sessions, and regularly check in to see how you’re doing. You may leave sessions feeling a bit emotionally drained, but you should never feel retraumatized or unsafe because of therapy.
At Headway, we know how hard it can be to find a good therapist for trauma or any other mental health need. That’s why our mission is to connect as many people as possible to high-quality, affordable, and accessible mental health care. All of our over 65,000 providers accept insurance, making it easier than ever for you to find a therapist who will work with your plan and treatment goals. Even better, they’re all just a click away, thanks to Headway’s convenient online provider directory. Use Headway to find a trauma-informed therapist today.
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